Review, Deacon, 1 Timothy 8-13

9. Review, Deacon

1 Timothy 3:8-13 In the same way, deacons are to be worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain.  They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience.  They must first be tested; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.  In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything. A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his children and his household well. Those who serve well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.

This wraps up the qualifications required to be chosen as a deacon. Although similar to an elder, there are some deletions and some additions. Being trustworthy and respected continues to be a very important characteristic. Importance is stressed on having a wife worthy of the position. She must be of good repute, not flamboyant or self-serving, and a woman who can be trusted. Together they will help the poor and disadvantage. They must be able to work together in this role. Also, they way they run their home and raise their children is quite important. If they cannot do that well, then how can they be expected to run the affairs of the church.

K and A, possibly you will be the wife of a leader in the church. Perhaps you will help choose a leader. Remember how important this position is. There is very little mentioned in either an elder or deacon position that alludes to their education or career experience. Paul values spiritual maturity over social status. He understands that worldly success is secondary to an obedient life dedicated to serving God. This is the key.

Daughters, be women who are dedicated to following the Lord. Set your heart on being a godly wife willing to put others needs ahead of your own. God will use you if you are open to being used to lift those around you. A Christian husband will be honored to call you his wife and have you work by his side as you aid him in his ministry before God.

~Dad